Happy Valentines's Day!

I turned my back for a minute (how many times have you heard that one) and Bronson grabbed a box of chocolates from the counter and went to town!

This is pretty good.

Let me try another one.

Just one more

Mommy's not even looking...hee hee.

Uh-oh. Busted.

Best dinner ever! Thanks mom.

"When you are in Love you can't fall asleep because reality is better than your dreams."-Dr. Seuss

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.
-Helen Keller

Happy Valentine's Day.

Dear Mo and Bronson,

I know as you boys get older you will start to read mommy's blog. So let's just pretend we are in the future and approaching your 16th birthdays.

I'm guessing you'll be into cars and hip hop. That's cool. You might even watch the MTV hit, My Super Sweet Sixteen which showcases over the top birthday celebrations. That's fine also.

But even if mommy is rich and jet setting from Cali to Capri on a regular basis (oooh...the law of attraction), let me tell you in advance how your 16th birthday WON'T be going down:

*You won't be getting a $360,000 Maybach. You might get a Mazda (in which I'm gonna need to help for half as well as your car insurance).

*You won't have Fabolous, Jim Jones, or Lil Kim perform at your mega exclusive A-List birthday bash. You might have your high school gospel choir or Glee Club there to sing Happy Birthday. Or maybe one of my friends that had a record deal many years ago could possibly chime in a hook or 2.

*I will not hire a uniformed driver to accompany you home. I might dress up in a cute ensemble given that my boobs and butt are still decently in tact and drive you home to make sure you get there safely (and you better give me a goodnight kiss).

*I will not be handing you a check for $10,000 as a birthday gift. I might hand you the bill from the evening and offer to pay a portion of it.

Yes, Morris and Bronson, this might be the fabulous life of Sean "P. Diddy" Combs's son, Justin's life, but not yours.

You will be lucky if I let you stay out past midnight (given I have a GPS tracker on you somehow). And don't even think about brining any little girls home.

Forget about it!!!!

Well, it's probably getting late. Don't forget to brush your teeth. And put that toilet seat down!

Oh, and Happy 16th Birthday boys.

Love, Mommy

"Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that."

-Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

Merry Christmas!

I always stress out around the Holiday Season as to what to get for Mo's teachers. Luckily, the class did a money collection and purchased gift certificates. Problem solved. I love the parents that take initiative. It enables me to be a slacker.

They also did a class photo of the kids and gave it to the teachers as well.

It turned out pretty good. I had absolutely nothing to do with the construction of it, so please don't ask me any "how to" questions. I just followed instructions and sent Mo to school wearing all black.  (In case you're looking, Mo is the left part of the "O")

When Mo said he wanted a Lego Death Starfor Christmas, I almost fainted. $400 for legos and almost 4,000 pieces!? No thanks, I'll pass.

Then, I heard about the gold plated Playstation 3. It a PSP unit plated in 24K for the bargain price of $5,000. Please note, this does not include the blinged out hand controllers. That's extra. 

I guess it could be worse, Mo could be asking for one of these pimped out gaming units.

Thank goodness we're a wii family. Looks like Mo could possibly be getting his Lego Death Star afterall. 4.000 lego pieces should keep my little guy busy for a couple of hours. Santa, hope you're listening.

Recently I talked to a mom that said she wasn't sure if she was gonna continue to do the whole "Santa thing" with her kids. She was a little down about the economy and said she didn't think it was right that Santa get the credit for her hard earned money and gift giving.

For me, it's just the whole essence of giving my kids something to believe in.

I can remember how excited I got around the holidays and the magical feeling of waking up Christmas morning to see the tree lit and filled with presents underneath. (I won't mention the one Christmas where I complained about the gifts and called them "crap" only to be sent back to bed until I was a little more appreciative for Santa's efforts).

Anyway, I realize what that mom was saying, but once you grow up and have kids, you really appreciate the efforts your parents make to help you feel special. And I'm sure your kids will feel the same way.

Whether it's giving "Santa" credit for the gift giving or the Tooth Fairy credit for the money. Just as adults need distractions from things such as the economy, relationships, job situations, etc, children need the same. They too get frustrated with life's little curveballs: making friends, doing well in school, excelling in sports, fitting in, etc.

So, I choose to let the holiday season be a happy time for me and the boys. It's a time to celebrate togetherness and c

reate traditions and happiness to remember for years to come. I can only hope that when they get older they will look back and appreciate the efforts just as I do now with my own folks and them giving me the gift of something to hope for and believe in.

Here are a couple of cool sites I found the kids might enjoy:

Claus.com: The coolest thing about this site is the "Naughty and Nice Rating". You type in your name and get a report from what Santa has concluded about your behavior. Here's what Santa thinks about me:

Overall, niceness outweighs naughtiness. Was good a lot last month! Politeness often good, but has room for improvement. Could help around house more instead of watching so much TV. Expected to move even higher up "nice" list.

Hmm...Guess I better get my butt in gear if I want to get that new Chole!

SantaClaus.com: For $9.95 you can get a personalized letter from Santa with a stamp "Mailed from the North Pole". For $6.95 your child can get a phone call the big guy personalized with their name. This sounds like a Flip worthy moment for when your kid is on his way to the Senior Prom. I'm sure his date will get a kick out of his excitement in the years to come.

NoradSanta.org: Wanna know Santa's exact location right now? This site can pinpoint Santa's location as well as a detailed countdown til the thrilling day. There is an amazing FAQ's section that answers your kid's most common questions that we seem to make up the dumbest answers for:

How does Santa get down chimneys?, How old is Santa?, When will Santa arrive at my house, etc.

So in between your holiday shopping and baking, hop on over to these sites. I've gotta go work on raising my niceness quotient!